"In Search of a Sister"

He’s looking for a good sister. He’s looking for a righteous sister. A real righteous sister.Not one of those teary-eyed girls watching General Hospital whothinks the only love worth striving for occurs at first sight and willbe breathless with passion by the second commercial. choices about the future they can have together.We are looking for a real righteous sister who embraces passion and wisdom.We are looking for a righteous sister who knows how to give unconditional love -- not just demand it.We are looking for a righteous sister who will communicate withoutscreaming or accusing, who will listen without trying to think ofsnappy replies, and who will not perpetuate female stereotypes byusing hormonal imbalances as an excuse to act ugly.We are looking for a real righteous sister.ain't scared of honesty, and knows it's time to save the race righteous sisterrrrrr. A good mother, good wife, good lover, good worker, strong supporter, intelligent, innovative righteous sister.A righteous sister who realizes Nintendo is not a mother, BET is not awife, and Fabio is not herhusband.And accept equal responsibility for the relationship righteous sister...and ask how a brother's day was righteous sister. And generate some sympathy for a brother when he's down righteous sister...a righteous sister who knows how to tell a good joke, and how to take one. A righteous sister who is confident enough about herlooks that she doesn't have to be two hours late for everyappointment because she was primping in the mirror.A righteous sister who realizes that if she's beautifulinside, tidy outside, and healthy, then $400 worth of makeup,jewels, and esigner fashions are just covering up her real oveliness.A righteous sister who doesn't compare every brother she'snever met to that last immature fool on Oprah. A righteous sister whose soul is pure, mind is keen, heartis warm, and body is reserved for the one and only person she will spendher entire life with.A righteous sister looking for a man of comparable qualities.A righteous sister who will encourage such a man'sinterest in her, insteadof cast him aside for the nearest crotch-grabbing,illiterate convict who just happens to have a Corvette, a creditcard, and a Billy Dee Williams smile. A read a book and sing a tune righteous sister...a righteous sister who loves black men and protects black children. A righteous sister who doesn't dog her man -- especially in public.And turn Melrose off, put down Denzel's latest Ebony cover,put away the shallow, sugary Harlequin romances, and let's talkinstead and build some tender, realistic love that will stand the testof time righteous sister.And tell your man -- instead of just you’re a so call homegirl --when you're hurting…. Find a righteous sister. And "I realize you aren't a mind reader, so I’m telling you“Find a righteous sister.”